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Social Anxiety: More Than Shy

Kids and Parenting

Being shy is a far cry from social anxiety disorder. Unfortunately, this is not something that we hear acknowledged in society. We are fond of our boot strap approach to solving other people's problems and overcoming other people's challenges.  This is a significant barrier in mental health treatment in the United States in how it is provided, how it is covered, and when it is sought. As with so many things society as a whole would benefit from a bit more empathy and a greater comprehension of the struggles others are facing. Social Continue Reading...

3 BIG Reasons To Give Children Specific Meaningful Praise

Kids and Parenting

  As parents, we have no choice but to tell our children when they have done something wrong.  It comes with the territory to chastise and admonish children for inappropriate behavior.  Without addressing problem behaviors they continue, and then we are not doing our job to raise well-behaved adults. There is no such requirement for praise, though we generally realize that without praise children will grow up with an insecure feeling about their worth and an uncertainty of their parent's views of them. What we rarely spend much Continue Reading...

Protecting Children From Sexual Predators: Safety Without Paranoia

Forensic Psychology

Protecting Children from Sexual Predators Sexual predators are a uniformly horrifying thought to parents everywhere. On the off chance, you needed a reminder of that fact you need look no further than our laws.  We have created law after law to try to protect our children and registries to track offenders. We live with a constant fear that they could easily be lurking around every corner, every restroom, in every park, and in every boy scout troop. Who can we trust?  How do we know? If you run a google search on the subject you will Continue Reading...

How To Talk To Kids About Sexual Abuse

Kids and Parenting

How To Talk To Children About Sexual Abuse An open pathway of communication and a supportive parent- child relationship are the number one means of protecting a child against sexual abuse.  There are a few reasons for that but first and foremost it is because those who would seek to prey upon a child will deliberately select one who is in need of adult interaction and/or does not have that parental advocate. So how do we have these conversations with our kids in order to best prepare them?  They are awkward and uncomfortable but they are Continue Reading...

A Spectrum Perspective: Being Human

Psychology

Being Human A Spectrum Perspective I posit that everything about being human occurs on a spectrum and to attempt to cut that spectrum into categories is to attempt to rob humanity of the undeniable beauty of individual uniqueness. Categories assist us in a great many ways.  They allow us to organize inordinate amounts of information in our minds, they help us efficiently retrieve information from our memory banks, and they help us communicate effectively. They can work to our detriment as well.  Categories allow us to discriminate, Continue Reading...

The OCD Child: Obsessive Compulsive Disorder In Children

Kids and Parenting

Obsessive Compulsive Disorders (OCD) In Children I will write about many disorders that effect both adults and children.  This one comes first because it is personal for me.  My oldest child and I both have OCD.  I recall the concerns that flowed through my mind before the moment of clarity when I realized what was was going on.  Once I realized that it was OCD there was some relief in knowing that I understood now, and that I knew how to handle the situation...in my case because I too have OCD and could totally understand. At times it is such Continue Reading...

P.A.N.D.A.S. and Child OCD

Kids and Parenting

Pandas are adorable bamboo munching bears.  P.A.N.D.A.S. on the other hand is Pediatric Autoimmune Neuropsychiatric Disorders Associated with Streptococcal Infections.  Not cute.  P.A.N.D.A.S. is rare.  Really quite rare.  However, it exists and it is a thing. This is not like the supposed link between autism and vaccinations...no this is studied and verifiable.  It has even been recreated in mice. Though it is real and recognizable it is still quite mysterious and while there is significant strength in the hypothesis there remains some Continue Reading...

Treating Child Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Kids and Parenting

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a disorder characterized by the experience of: Obsessions: Intrusive, disturbing, recurring intense thoughts or fears Compulsions: Actions taken to reduce the anxiety and distress of the obsessions being experienced. For a more in depth discussion of what Childhood OCD is click here. To take a quiz to help you determine if your child may have OCD click here. Treating Childhood OCD OCD is a disorder that waxes and wanes.  There may be periods of time when the child is relatively unphased Continue Reading...

Privacy and Communication Policy

Privacy & Communication Policy

Privacy and Communication Policy Personal information is kept confidential on this site. Your question may be used as a post on this blog.  If your question is used on this blog all identifying details would be removed.  Names would be changed including names of schools and cities as mentioned. When you comment or ask a question feel free to change names as well if it makes you feel more comfortable. Your email address and personal information will never be shared or sold. If you ask me a question I will respond. Please understand Continue Reading...

Bad Thought OCD In Children: The Torture of Thought

Kids and Parenting

Bad Thought OCD is an atypical presentation of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. While Bad Thought OCD is not typical OCD it is likely more common than we realize because it goes undiagnosed. In standard Obsessive Compulsive Disorder there are fears/concerns which we call obsessions.  Those fears then spark Compulsions, which are actions taken that feel out of control to the person performing them.  The purpose of these compulsions is to quiet the angst in the mind that is being caused by the obsessive thoughts. In Bad Thought OCD there Continue Reading...

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